Reflections on Loss

Death is a door slammed in your face - no appeal, no fuzziness, just finality. And afterwards, after the fuss and the drama - that’s when things start to sink in. Space and time are needed; time to think. It doesn’t have to be maudlin or mournful, just a need for a space to let thoughts unfold in their own time and for the new reality to develop. From a visit to Coniston in November, after my sister’s funeral. It was the perfect healing and remembering place in which to reflect - somehow sombre rather than sad. The dark weather played it’s part too; allowing the simple physicality of rain on my face, the sound of fast rushing rivers, and the mist rolling down from the hills, to nurture and restore.